Many ladies in the society have been brainwashed into
believing it is entirely up to them to keep a man at home
and make a relationship work.
is being passed on to the young ladies who have
attained the age of marriage. Words like love, faith,
patience, resilience, commitment, dedication and prayer
are terms you have to deal with as couples.
Women are not born with these qualities or virtues; the
strong and reputable women you see in the environment
had to work on themselves. A woman who has all these
qualities is considered to be refined. For a woman to be
able to possess these qualities, that means it is possible
to find men with outstanding qualities too. So why do
women weigh themselves down with the burden of
making relationships and marriages work if the holy
matrimony is perceived to be a hypocritical religious
devotion by the men?
This primitive school of thought has subjected lots of
women to slavery in their relationships; they have forced
themselves to endure scorn and hardships while some
put up with cheating men who cannot pay their own
bills.
Find below some of the things you should never
do to please a man:
1. Never agree to sleep with another man to get him a
job or contract
Some women claim to be so much in love with their men
to the point that they would do anything for them. You
should never allow a man to coerce you into doing things
that are beneath your standard.
If you are willing to sleep with your boss to get him a job
or a contract, then you are putting yourself on the spot
as you have given him a reason big enough for you to
break up.
Apart from him not trusting you, you could suffer a big
depression as you have compromised your standard and
this may dwindle your self-esteem.
2. Do not agree to threesome even if he suggests it
Men have crazy s*xual fantasies; you should never give
in to anything that would make you get ridiculed at the
long run. The only reason why this may not matter to
you is if you are in for the fun of it.
But even at that, your integrity is at stake. Do not agree
to let him sleep with your friend while you are there and
do not succumb to sleeping with him and his friend too.
Your emotion would be on the line and things would get
messy at the long run. Think about this; will a man who
wants to marry you be willing to share you with his
friend?
3. Do not give him the history of your life
Now, no one is asking you to be secretive in your
relationship. It is important for you to open up to your
partner and discuss issues that would push your
relationship ahead.
While doing this, you should know that your partner does
not need every detail of your life. Some ladies make this
silly mistake of baring everything as soon as they fall in
love. Not every man deserves to know your history as
those things could be used against you.
4. Avoid sending n*de pictures of yourself
Ladies, please wake up. It is not okay for you to send
naked pictures of yourself to any man simply because
you are trying to bridge the gap between you both. A
man that would cheat would always cheat no matter
what.
Even when you trust your partner and know that your
nud3 pictures are safe with him, have you thought about
what could happen if his phone got stolen?
The pictures could get into the wrong hands and you
could become one of those girls whose nud3 pictures are
displayed on social media.
5. Never give up on your dreams
There are so many talented and intelligent women in the
society; these women have loads of potentials stored in
them. However, they have recoiled into their shells
because they want to please their partners.
They would give up on their dreams and embrace that of
their partners. It would be difficult living a fulfilled life if
you always subject yourself to the opinions of others.
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